I humbly accept

you've been invited to the diddy party

I mean if that's what you enjoy

Getting a blowjob from a man isn't actually gay

I think that getting sucked off by a man isn't really gay. The male mouth and female mouth are literally the same. How can getting sucked off by one be gay and the other not? It's just another kind of bias against gay people. Not every action involving ♥♥♥♥♥ is sexual. Is peeing sexual? No right. I'd say that blowjobs are only 50% sexual (since the penis is a sexual organ and the mouth is not) and net 0% gay, since the gay and straight aspects balance each other out. If you closed your eyes and had an experienced person of unspecified gender/sex sucking you, you probably wouldn't be able to tell who it was. So blowjobs are sex neutral.

Of course, if you are doing the sucking then it would be gay. There is a fair difference between a ♥♥♥♥ and a clit, so it is a bit gay. Nothing wrong with it though.