Pulling a piece of leather - Lost my face again

Self-destruction is a defense mechanism when a person cannot vent negativity outside and redirects it to himself/herself. For example, he/she cannot express his/her dissatisfaction because of his/her upbringing, so he/she keeps his/her feelings inside and does not let his/her emotions out.

Self-loathing is a destructive feeling that eats a person from the inside. What causes self-absorption? To begin with the most common reason - dissatisfaction with your appearance. The fact that society dictates us the "ideal" of beauty, and millions of girls around the world go under the knife to match them. Of course, this is not the way out of such a difficult situation, because dislike of yourself does not depend on appearance, it is more a psychological problem which can be solved only by its owner, because no surgeon can change a person's attitude towards himself.