I know enough about being the gay

You'd know al about that, wouldn't you?

Thats actually pretty fuckin gay

Something better might be, "Somepeople spend their free time with you, others make free time to spend with you."

Key and point. This is how some people think. I think of it more as, "If you wanted to talk to me more, play, etc. You'd ask to prove it. And if you show that toward me, I'm more likely to come up to you and do the same.".

By that logic wouldn't nobody ever talk to anybody because they remind themselves that the other person would've already done it, while the other person thinks the same, ending in an infinite loop?