特别喜欢的书《你当像鸟飞往你的山》里写到：
你可以很爱一个人的同时，依然选择和他说再见；你可以时刻都在思念一个人，但仍然庆幸他不会出现在你的生命里。
You can love someone deeply while still choosing to say goodbye to them; You can always miss someone, but still be grateful that they won't appear in your life.