LOVE is just mostly attraction and expectations. you got attracted by looks, or personality, or whatever “types” you have on you partner. You expect some kind of relationship or life together, or whatever benefits YOU.

When the attraction fades and the expectations falls, you’ll start hating on each other because there’s nothing else to latch onto. Love is not REAL, it’s just something made up.

What’s real is a sense of comfort and FEAR of being ALONE.

In the end, You court and marry somebody for the sake of having offsprings and not LIVE alone.