Well, let me put it to you this way. You see a piece of pizza, and it looks delicious. You'd like to eat that piece of pizza, so you move up and try to make a move to do so. But the pizza stops you and says that it'd rather be friends. I mean...sure you could use another friend, but could you be friends with that pizza? You'll always want to eat it. But you'll never be able to. Even worse, you might have to see someone ELSE eat it. It'll eat you up inside.